SOCIAL: WHY SOME PEOPLE ARE MEAN

Have you ever felt the need or have ever been compelled to be mean to a possible crush. This is actually common and it happens everyday. We often overlook this but I feel that it is a crucial part of understanding relations. Im not one to speak but from experience I have noticed that this can affect it in two ways. It could bode well for you or go down in flames essentially ruining what you have been working towards with that person. I have had it both ways and to the extent that someone actually threatened me that they would no longer speak or be my friend. I find that when it comes to these things you have to take the risk or stand to loose it all. This teasing actually occurs because people want to maintain control over the other person. This results in a power struggle. The reason why someone would want such control is because they don’t want to be taken for. People take advantage of those that are too nice and those that are too nice don’t recognize that they are too nice. They say, “kill em with kindness,” but I feel this is just the lefts response to oppress the other side. They do it in such a way as to censor the other person through passive aggressive means. I feel that there needs to be a balance of control when dealing with others. In my personal experience I always try to have leverage. And it is this leverage that is the saving grace of all your hopes. Having leverage allows one to be competitive and aggressive. This leverage allows one to conquer. It gives control to chaotic situations. And these situations can improve ones quality of life if the matters are dealt with elegance.